Thinking about White Privilege

It’s MLK Day and I’m thinking about his legacy. I’m thinking about the people in the civil rights movement and how the sheer force of their vision changed the trajectory of this country.  I’m thinking about the courage and sacrifice of regular people who chose to engage. I’m thinking what I can do these days … which makes me think about:

  • white privilege, our students, and what I can do to address systemic racism, economic injustice, and inequality  
  • how can I have more conversations that shift thinking so that my students understand these large social systems and desire to lead lives that change the systems?  
  • the way white privilege impacts the experience of our Black, Latina, Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed race students?
  • am I/are we more aware of and sensitive to the needs/experiences/feelings of white students than I am/we are aware of and sensitive to the needs/experiences/feelings of our non-white students?
Angela Davis says “in a racist society, it is not enough to be non-racist, we must be antiracist”.  What does that look like?  And why is the concept of white privilege so unpleasant and unpopular? Maybe- some white people 
  • don’t want to believe they live in a world where much of they’ve been told about fairness is wrong?
  • want to believe in the American dream – hard work pays off and good things happen to good people?
  • want to believe they alone have “earned” their privilege?
  • don’t think they have any privilege at all because they can’t see it (like a fish not seeing water)?
  • don’t want to think of themselves as ignorant about how the world works?
  • don’t want to think they have (knowingly or unkowingly) harmed or are harming people?
  • are not readily aware of the discrimination and unconscious and structural biases black and brown people face every day? 

What does white privilege even mean? To me, it means that a white person generally has a set of built in advantages that others do not. It isn’t “something I take and which I therefore have the option of not taking. It is something that society gives me, and unless I change the institutions which give it to me, they will continue to give it, and I will continue to have it, however noble and equalitarian my intentions.” (Harry Brod)  White privilege is “having greater access to power and resources than people of color [in the same situation] do”. (Teaching Tolerance)

It’s my experience that the hardest part about having conversations about white privilege, racial and economic injustice in the classroom is getting to a point where students 1) feel safe and that their opinions matter  2) try to use language that honors their own experience/ideas but doesn’t degrade anyone else’s 3) are empathetic  4) are willing to learn something new and not just cling to their original perspective.

For our white students, I am thinking about how to help them not be offended when someone asks them to “check their privilege”.  What is being asked is that the white person examine – stop and consider – how the advantages they’ve had in their life might be contributing to their position, opinions and actions.  And maybe to consider how the lack of disadvantage in certain areas is keeping them from fully understanding the struggles of others.  Acknowledging that systemic racism and economic injustice exist means challenging what we know about race, class, and wealth in this country – not easy – but if we don’t work to change the system, we might be contributing to the struggles of those who have suffered enough.

With my juniors in Symbols and Ethics we’re watching a movie called Paper City and will be using some of the lesson plans from the accompanying educational program.  Paper City is a film inspired by MLK’s last book: Where Do We Go From Here? Chaos or Community?  As we analyze the systems, social norms, and historical events that created a drug infested violent situation in Holyoke MA, maybe some shifts will take place and we all can see more clearly the disadvantages facing youths in Holyoke (and other communities) because of racial and economic disparities.

With this issue and others that are so contentious, my objective is that my students will be more inclined to listen deeply to others’ experiences and be equipped with some social analysis strategies, such as the “critical reflection cycle”, the “pastoral circle”, the “conflict resolution method”, or design think.  I’m also hoping my students can connect these issues to the principles of Catholic Social Teaching (i.e. human dignity, preferential option for the poor and vulnerable, solidarity), which is basically how the Church applies the Gospels to current events and social issues.

Talking about privilege makes a classroom of students squirm – some want to talk about it but most don’t; they don’t want to cause a fight or hurt anyone’s feelings.  It makes me nervous too, but I’m white and have benefited from the system so I don’t get to avoid the issue.  I’ve been told from black colleagues and learned from reading that part of white privilege is the ability to remain silent about race issues or in the face of racist activity.  If we understand systemic racism and economic injustice and do nothing about it, we’re in collusion with the system that set it up. What to do? What does being “antiracist” look like to you?  What kinds of things are you doing in your classroom that challenge the status quo and change the system?   Is there anything else we can do to explore ways that race, privilege, prejudice and structural inequality might be affecting our Black, Latina, Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed race students?

 
Lastly, these are a few books (above) I’d like to read and am wondering if anyone else would like to read and discuss in a group?

“You unlock this door with the key of imagination…”

When I took on organizing the Sophomore Community program for the fall, I initially struggled with its shape and structure.  Through conversation with Stacie, Sarah, and the rest of the Student Life Team, the purpose of the program was clear.  We wanted to build on the community building and social emotional learning pieces that Frosh Advisory began nurturing last year.  With this in mind, I have tried to capitalize on what the year brings in order to build community and engage with school traditions.  






The October Soph Community date happened to fall the week before *St. Marty’s party.  Decorating for St. Marty’s Party is a wonderful way for the Sophomore class to bond, give community service, and participate in a school tradition.  Maggie let me know that the Sophomores traditionally decorate classroom doors for the trick or treating section of the party.  These decorated doors are for the time when the children, dressed in costumes that they choose, trick or treat through our academic building. It’s an important part of making this event festive and welcoming for these children.  Since the theme this year is Pixar, she wanted the doors to be themed using the films. 

With the help of the wonderful Sophomore Council and their moderator, Andrew Kjera, doors and themes were assigned to the eight Soph Community groups.  Last Thursday, during the afternoon X, students were assigned doors, themes, and working groups.  They were told that they had 30 minutes to design, decorate, and put up these doors.  The Community group with the most successful doors would earn a pizza party for November’s Community meeting.  Maggie and I also decided that a bag of candy would be awarded to the Community group that produced the best decorated single door. 

Students worked diligently.  Ideas abounded.  Mistakes were made, set aside and work began again.  Students helped groups not in their Soph Community group.  Other students shared resources with those around them.  Additional materials were requested, found, and utilized.  The controlled chaos was electric.  Watching the Sophomores, I was surprised to see how quickly and efficiently most students were working.  They were focused and having fun.  Andrew pointed out to me that these students all took Think, Make, Share last year and had worked on these kinds of design challenges.  They had experience tackling a problem with limited resources and time.  Watching the students work, I saw how their shared experience was helping them with this challenge.  This was an unintended and welcome consequence of this Community session!

I’m now planning November’s Sophomore Community session in conjunction with Sophomore Council.  I’m eager to continue to build this program.  What else can we do to come together as a community and build on the common skills we are working on as a school?  It’s an interesting problem.

*St. Marty’s party is a wonderful school tradition.  For those of you who are new to the community, Carondelet puts on a Halloween party for children who may not live in an area where it is safe to trick or treat and/or may not have the means to celebrate the holiday.  This event is called St. Marty’s Party, as it was originally put on for the children of St. Martin de Porres Elementary School which has since closed. Today, we serve the children of Monument Crisis Center.  Hopefully you had a chance to stay and participate in the party. The children had so much fun this year.

Lemonade from Lemons

Yesterday, I had a not so great interaction with a student, which left me feeling really bad and it ended up consuming my entire night-yes, I woke up at 2 a.m. thinking about this kid. Why? Oh, why do we have to care so much? Anyway, every year I inevitably have a couple interactions with students that I wish could have gone better, which is par for the course when you work with people, especially teenagers. Many years ago, I realized one way to counteract the way these unfortunate interactions make me feel is to write positive emails to parents of students with which I’ve had great interactions. Fortunately, these positive interactions way out number the negative ones, like by 1000%! Here is a sampling of a few emails I sent this morning:

Dear Mr. and Mrs __________, 
Good morning! I’m writing just to let you know that it has been an absolute pleasure working with _________ this year. He is a great kid! _________ is a joy to be around; he always listens attentively and consistently contributes to our classroom community. I am so happy that he is in my class! 
Have a wonderful day and God bless!
Sincerely,
Mrs. Cutright
Dear Mr. and Mrs. ___________,

I just want to send a quick note to acknowledge what a great kid you have. I am ________’s English teacher this year, and I feel very lucky to have her in my class. I went to England with ____________ a couple of summers ago and I see how she positively influenced her peers during that trip. I get to see another side of her in the classroom. ___________ is hard-working and interested in learning. She really is a joy to be around!
I hope you have a wonderful day.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Cutright
When the time is right, I am going to revisit the conversation I had with the student of yesterday and try again. In the meantime, I do feel better. What do you do when you have a not so awesome interaction with another human?

Washing of the Feet

Photo creds: Adam Chaffey
Photo creds: Miranda Cozzone
While on Ven a Ver last week, we attended three masses at three different churches. We went to Palm Sunday mass in Charleston, Holy Thursday mass in Parkersburg, West Virginia, and Good Friday mass in Columbus, Ohio. I loved the Holy Thursday service. I’ve always loved Holy Thursday. When I go to church, I want to feel the Holy Spirit, and I have been affected by Holy Thursday my whole life. I love the washing of the feet and the reminder of the importance of humility. Having your feet washed is embarrassing though. Just the idea of it makes me nervous, and I almost talk myself out of getting my feet washed every time. But one of our students asked me to go up and have my feet washed with her. How could I say no? I chose to attend Ven a Ver to serve my students, my community after all. Lesly (Do you know Lesly? She is such outgoing and full of life, a pleasure to be around) and I approached the alter and had our feet washed. A couple more students followed. It was a beautiful experience. Later, we went to dinner in town and an older couple who saw us at church asked about our group. I invited them to dine with us and we talked about our trip and their lives in West Virginia. They too are educators, though retired. This couple shared how heartfelt it was that some of our students had their feet washed. It is really a very spiritual tradition, washing of the feet.